Saying goodbye to a pet fish in Des Moines
Not every crematory near Des Moines accepts fish, and the smallest ones leave little to return. We'll help you find the right option and ask the right questions.
- Freezer tips so nothing is rushed
- Private or communal cremation explained
- Help keeping the rest of the pond safe
Des Moines, Washington
Who will cremate a fish in Des Moines?
Salt air keeps the shoreline mild: December nights rarely dip below the upper 30s, and August afternoons settle in the high 70s. That means no dependable cold to slow things down. Settle your animal on a folded towel in whichever indoor room stays coolest, draw the curtains, and line up a collection or a trip to the clinic for the same day or the next morning at the latest.
Des Moines is a waterfront city in south King County, strung along Puget Sound between Seattle and Tacoma, with a marina, a beach park and a small downtown on the slope above the water. Homes range from bluff-top houses with Sound views to apartments and duplexes near Pacific Highway and Highline College. Getting to a clinic is easy along the highway corridor, though I-5 traffic at rush hour can turn a short errand into a long one.
Plenty of people around Des Moines fish for sport, and some feel a little sheepish about grieving a pet fish. There's no contradiction. A goldfish or koi that lived with your family for years, came to the glass when you walked in and knew the sound of the feed tub was a companion, not a catch. It deserves the same thought you'd give any pet, whether that ends in a garden grave, a planter or a cremation near Tacoma.
Des Moines's population is around 33,032, the 40th-largest of the 67 Washington communities we cover. The nearest larger centre is Tacoma, about 11 miles (18 km) away, which is where some providers serving Des Moines are based.
Our pages for SeaTac (4 miles), Kent (5 miles, a larger centre) and Federal Way (5 miles, a larger centre) describe the same choices from those towns' point of view, and the providers overlap, so a quote from one often covers Des Moines as well.
79.1%[1]
Washington had a 79.1% cremation rate in 2024, among the highest in the US.
10 million[2]
About 10 million US households keep freshwater fish.
13%[3]
13% of UK households keep an indoor fish tank.
3-5% of body weight[4]
Embrace notes cremated remains typically weigh about 3-5% of the pet's original body weight.
The published sources behind those figures are Embrace Pet Insurance and American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 National Pet Owners Survey release.
Cremation in Washington: a little context
Urns and keepsakes are easy to buy in Washington, where cremation is the choice for about 79.1%[1] of people, but most are sized for a cat or a dog, and a fish's ashes can look lost inside them. Look for a keepsake urn of a few cubic inches, a glass heart or a small wooden box. The urn size calculator helps if you're unsure. For a large koi, one small urn indoors and a pinch saved for the garden often works well.
For the Washington figure we rely on Direct Cremate (citing CANA) (2024). Read it as a picture of local custom around death and remembrance in Des Moines rather than as pet data.
When the weather sets the pace in Des Moines
Even in a mild climate, the warmest weeks deserve care. On hot afternoons in Des Moines, water temperature climbs and oxygen falls, and a fish that dies in the heat breaks down quickly. Remove it straight away, seal it and freeze it. Then check the pump, the filter and the temperature before thinking about the goodbye.
Des Moines's gentle seasons suit a garden memorial. With no hard freeze to wait out, you can plant a water iris, a fern or a flowering shrub near a fish's resting place in almost any week of the year. The wettest stretch, around November, is often the easiest time to get a new plant established, and the soil is soft enough to dig without a fight. If you plan to scatter a koi's ashes, pick a dry, still day instead.
Why a small fish still has a minimum price
Cost is a fair worry, even for a small pet. In one US survey of pet owners, 61%[5] said the cost of aftercare was a concern. The good news for fish keepers in Des Moines is that there are low-cost options: communal cremation through a vet, a garden or planter burial that costs next to nothing, or a private cremation only for the larger fish where ash is worth keeping.
The Washington price table breaks costs down by size; our services page explains what sits behind each line.
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Local rules in Washington
Ashes from a fish are mostly bone mineral, and scattering them is rarely regulated on your own land. Tipping them into a pond that still holds fish can cloud the water, so many keepers scatter around the edge instead. Public lakes, rivers and parks are a different matter: the body that manages them can set its own rules. Here's what applies in Washington.
The official Washington local government directory lists every county and city office, which is the quickest way to find who to ask in Des Moines.
The rules that apply across Washington (home burial, scattering and who oversees pet cremation) are summarized on our Washington page. Des Moines may add its own conditions, so check with the city or county before digging.
A checklist for Des Moines fish keepers
- Don't flush. Net your fish out of the water, then wrap it in a bit of paper or cotton wool.
- Put it in the freezer in a sealed bag, clearly labeled.
- Check the tank or pond the same day: test the water and look over every remaining fish.
- Think about what you'd like to keep: ashes for a small urn, a token vial, a photo print or simply a place to visit.
- Call a crematory or your vet in Des Moines, tell them how big the fish is and ask directly what would come back to you.
- Let yourself grieve. A fish you fed every day for years leaves a real gap in your routine.
Ways to mark the spot
Saltwater State Park's beach and wooded ravine, the long marina fishing pier and the waterfront path through Des Moines Beach Park are where many locals spend their free hours. Because these are public shores, families generally hold on to ashes at home or set a biodegradable urn beneath a shrub in their own garden. A shell or smooth stone picked up on a last beach visit can sit beside the urn.
run the numbers with the free planning tools, or see what other families chose in the poll results, Every option Des Moines families choose between is on the services page, there are guides for the big decisions and articles for the details. Close to Des Moines we also cover Tacoma, Vancouver, Kent and Bellevue; the full list for Washington and for the United States is a click away.
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Free tools to help you plan
Cremation cost calculator
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Ashes weight estimator
See roughly how much ash to expect back, by species and body weight.
Aftercare options compared
Compare private, communal and water cremation with burial on cost, timing and what comes home.
Questions people ask
Does the Des Moines climate change what I should do first?
Only the timing. In August, with highs near 78°F, cool the body and book collection the same day. Winters here are mild enough that burial or scattering is possible in any month.
Is cremation common in Washington?
For people, yes: about 79.1%[1] of Washington deaths end in cremation, according to Direct Cremate (citing CANA) (2024). Nobody publishes the same figure for pets, but in our experience pet choices in Des Moines follow the human pattern closely, so cremation is the default most families here start from.
Where are the providers that serve Des Moines actually based?
Some are local, and some run from Tacoma, about 11 miles away. That is normal for a town this size. What matters is the collection time they quote for Des Moines and whether the drive is priced into the total, so ask both up front.
Can a provider from a neighbouring town collect from Des Moines?
Usually yes. SeaTac is about 4 miles away, Kent is about 5 miles away and Federal Way is about 5 miles away, all inside a normal collection radius. Get the mileage written into the quote so there is no surprise on the day.
How long will it take to get my fish's ashes back in Des Moines?
Many families receive private cremation ashes in about one to two weeks. In a smaller town, where the cremation happens in a larger city such as Tacoma, it may take a little longer, especially if your vet has a weekly collection. Ask for an expected return date when you book.
What should I do with the other fish after one dies?
Remove the dead fish quickly, then test the water for ammonia, nitrite, pH and temperature. Check the filter, pump and heater. If readings are off, do a partial water change and hold off feeding for a day. Watch the others closely for a week. If more fish look unwell, a vet who sees fish can examine a freshly chilled body.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] Washington had a 79.1% cremation rate in 2024, among the highest in the US. Direct Cremate (citing CANA), 2024.
- [2] About 10 million US households keep freshwater fish. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 National Pet Owners Survey release, 2025.
- [3] 13% of UK households keep an indoor fish tank. UK Pet Food (formerly PFMA) Pet Population 2026, 2026.
- [4] Embrace notes cremated remains typically weigh about 3-5% of the pet's original body weight. Embrace Pet Insurance - Bury or Cremate Your Dog? Costs, Pros & Cons, 2025.
- [5] 61% of US owners in the Cooney survey rated the cost of after-death body care as a concern (27.9% concerned, 33.1% very concerned). Cooney, Kogan, Brooks, Ellis - Pet Owners' Expectations for Pet End-of-Life Support and After-Death Body Care, Topics in Companion Animal Medicine (2020), 2020.
- [6] Engraved pet garden stones start at about $39 at the median of three US sellers. Our estimate: median of starting prices [$38 Adirondack, $38.95 Memorials.com, $89.99 Comfort Co.]. How we calculate.
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