Fish aftercare in Dickinson, from koi to betta
A pond koi and a tank tetra need very different goodbyes. Here's who in and around Dickinson will cremate a fish, what it costs and what to do when there'll be almost no ash.
- Pond and aquarium fish both covered
- Water cremation where it's offered
- Kind ways to explain it to children
Dickinson, North Dakota
Getting help with a fish loss around Dickinson
Dickinson is the Stark County seat on I-94 in southwest North Dakota, home to a state university and a mix of ranching and oil work. Housing ranges from established streets near downtown to newer developments on the edges of town. With the nearest large cities hours away, local options for pet aftercare may be limited, so ask your vet which providers serve Stark County and how returns of ashes are handled.
Dickinson can see freezing weather from October to April, with January lows averaging around 6 degrees. For much of that time the ground is too hard to dig, and cold conditions preserve the body well. Wrap your pet, keep them somewhere cool and secure, and wait for safe travel conditions. Summer afternoons average in the mid-80s in July, so move more quickly from June through August.
In a town the size of Dickinson, many families simply bury a small fish in the garden, and there's nothing wrong with that. Cremation tends to come up for larger or older fish: a koi that has been in the family for years, a big goldfish that outgrew three tanks, or a fish that belonged to someone who has since passed on. For those, the drive to a crematory near Dickinson can be worth it.
About 25,870 people live in Dickinson, which makes it the 7th-largest of the 10 North Dakota communities we cover.
Families in Dickinson often end up using a provider from Mandan (90 miles), Bismarck (95 miles, a larger centre) and Williston (98 miles). That is normal: crematories serve a radius, not a single town, and the drive is priced into collection.
60.0%[1]
The NFDA projected North Dakota's cremation rate at 60.0% for 2024.
10 million[2]
About 10 million US households keep freshwater fish.
13%[3]
13% of UK households keep an indoor fish tank.
3-5% of body weight[4]
Embrace notes cremated remains typically weigh about 3-5% of the pet's original body weight.
To check the figures yourself, see American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 National Pet Owners Survey release and UK Pet Food (formerly PFMA) Pet Population 2026.
Cremation in North Dakota: a little context
About 60.0%[1] of people in North Dakota are cremated, a figure that has been climbing for years. Pet aftercare has followed a similar path, and fish are part of that shift. Where families once flushed or buried every fish without a second thought, more now ask whether a long-lived koi or goldfish can be cremated and its ashes kept. The answer is usually yes, as long as the fish is big enough to leave something.
The North Dakota percentage above is from NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) and refers to human funerals. Treat it as context for Dickinson, not as a count of pets.
When the weather sets the pace in Dickinson
If you find a fish frozen into the ice in Dickinson, don't hammer the surface to get it out; many keepers avoid that because the shock can stress the fish still living below. Pour hot water on a spot or let a de-icer open a hole, and lift the fish out once it's free. If a fish is stuck deep in thick ice, it may be kinder to the others to wait for a thaw.
Cold months in Dickinson (January, February, March, April, October, November and December) mean that power cuts matter. A pond pump or tank heater that fails during a freeze can kill fish within hours. If it happens and you lose fish, keep them sealed in the freezer, or in a cold garage if the freezer is out too, while you get things running again. Aftercare can wait days or weeks without any problem.
Paying for a fish's goodbye in Dickinson
Expect to pay the provider's small-pet minimum for your fish in Dickinson. PetMD says US communal cremation starts from about $50[5], and Embrace Pet Insurance gives wider national ranges for private cremation and aquamation, shown below. Before you pay for a private cremation, ask how much ash the provider expects to return. Cremated remains usually weigh about 3-5% of body weight[4], and a fish can come in at the low end of that.
We keep the detailed North Dakota price table on one page so it stays current: see North Dakota prices.
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Local rules in North Dakota
Some fish diseases are taken seriously by governments. Koi herpesvirus, for example, is reportable in a number of countries because it spreads between ponds and fisheries. If a vet suspects a notifiable disease, follow their instructions on disposal, which may mean cremation rather than burial. For everyday losses from age or water problems, the normal rules for North Dakota, set out below, are all you need.
To find your county or city office in North Dakota, start with the official North Dakota local government directory.
Start with the North Dakota rules, which cover burial, scattering and oversight for the whole state, and treat Dickinson's local ordinances as a possible extra layer.
The first day after a fish dies
- Book an aquatic vet when an elderly or ill fish is obviously in distress. An anesthetic overdose, given gently, lets it slip away peacefully.
- Settle the aftercare question when you book, so you know whether the vet will send your fish to a crematory or hand it back to you.
- Carry it in a tub of water from its own tank or pond, lid on, with a battery air pump for a long drive.
- Decide whether you want to stay. Being present feels right to many people, but saying your goodbye at home beforehand is just as valid.
- Choose private cremation, communal cremation or a home burial and have the full price written down before you head home.
- Watch the remaining fish closely for a week or so, above all when infection was part of the story.
Keeping your fish part of the family story
The badlands of Theodore Roosevelt National Park are less than an hour west, and many southwest North Dakota families have memories of drives out to Medora with their pets along for the ride. Scattering in a national park requires following federal rules, which you can check with the park directly. Many people choose to keep ashes at home or take them out to family land instead.
Every option Dickinson families choose between is on the services page, the planning tools turn your pet's details into figures, the guides answer the longer questions and the blog the newer ones, or compare your instinct with the poll results. More local pages: Williston, Grand Forks, Bismarck and Fargo, the North Dakota overview and every city in the United States.
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Cremation cost calculator
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Aftercare options compared
Compare private, communal and water cremation with burial on cost, timing and what comes home.
Questions people ask
How does Dickinson's weather affect fish aftercare?
July is the hottest month in Dickinson, with average highs around 84°F, so prompt collection matters most then. Average lows drop below freezing in January, February, March, April, October, November and December, which can make digging a grave hard until spring.
How do North Dakota attitudes to cremation compare?
NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage) (2024) puts the North Dakota human cremation rate at about 60.0%[1]. We show it on the Dickinson page because pet aftercare choices tend to track it: where cremation is normal for people, communal and private pet cremation are both easy to find.
Can a provider from a neighbouring town collect from Dickinson?
Usually yes. Mandan is about 90 miles away, Bismarck is about 95 miles away and Williston is about 98 miles away, all inside a normal collection radius. Get the mileage written into the quote so there is no surprise on the day.
Is it okay to flush a dead fish?
It's better not to. Fish can carry parasites and bacteria that shouldn't reach rivers, and wastewater isn't always fully treated, especially during storms. Never flush a fish that might still be alive. Burying it in the garden or a planter, or freezing it until you arrange cremation, is kinder and safer, and children often find a small burial less upsetting than a flush.
Can my vet in Dickinson arrange a fish's cremation?
Often yes. Many small-town vets send small animals to a regional crematory and can include a fish with their regular collection. Ask whether their crematory accepts fish, whether you'll get ashes back for your fish's size and what the total cost will be.
My fish jumped out of the tank. Could it still be alive?
Possibly, if it hasn't been out long. Many fish survive a few minutes on the floor. Slip it back into the aquarium straight away and watch the gills. If they move, keep the lights low and the water calm. If there's no movement after several minutes, the fish has probably died. Handle it with a damp cloth, fit a tight lid to protect the others and freeze the body while you decide.
Sources and our estimates
- [1] The NFDA projected North Dakota's cremation rate at 60.0% for 2024. NFDA 2024 Cremation & Burial Report state projections (via Occasional Sage), 2024.
- [2] About 10 million US households keep freshwater fish. American Pet Products Association (APPA) 2025 National Pet Owners Survey release, 2025.
- [3] 13% of UK households keep an indoor fish tank. UK Pet Food (formerly PFMA) Pet Population 2026, 2026.
- [4] Embrace notes cremated remains typically weigh about 3-5% of the pet's original body weight. Embrace Pet Insurance - Bury or Cremate Your Dog? Costs, Pros & Cons, 2025.
- [5] PetMD says US group (communal) cremation costs from about $50 and private cremation from about $100. PetMD - Pet Euthanasia: How Much Does It Cost? (July 2025), 2025.
- [6] Private pet aquamation costs about 2.5 times communal aquamation at the same provider. Our estimate: mean of tier ratios 150/50, 200/75, 250/100, 350/150, 450/225. How we calculate.
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